Saturday with Sheetal

Wonderful to know that my stress buster is a very common tools for almost 70% of the people.  And this is called Retail Therapy.  Let me explain in detail, shopping is a most common tool, people consciously or unconsciously use to get relief of stress. Generally, it's found that people ( not only women) do comfort shopping under stress and sometimes unwanted stuff as well. Results could be mismanagement of the funds but I believe it would still be cheaper than the psychiatrist. Or you may fix a budget for the same and make a fund for yourself, which can be spent under stress.  I feel, since long, that this is the most weird thing I can do, as never find anybody around me, like me. But thanks to Google, you just think of the idea and it will give you all the history and all the researches on the same. Now you clear all your doubts. And mind it, it could be any of your habit and majority of the people will be like you. You may not feel that you are that ...

Kitni bheer lagi hai harsu, phir bhi Kitni tanhai hai, Main huin kitni khili khili si, Phir kuin udasi chhai hai, Na Suraj ko lali mili or na chand ko chandni, Har taraf hai ghup andhera, bas badli si chhai hai, Maa tu nahi hai paas, par tera ahsaas toh hai, Zindagi kaise jeeni hai, ye samajh teri hi dilwai hai, Dil chahta hai tujhse milun main Maa, Par utna to farz nibha lu, jitna tu ne meri liye nibhai hai. On the lighter side, Zindagi ek rasta hai, manzil nahi, Toh kya hua-e-dil, jo tu ne thokar khai hai, Tere zakham honge,  nishaan  kisi ke liye, Door se hi jaan jayegai, kahan kitni gehrai hai, Dil ko dil ki raah hoti toh hai, phir bhi, Har shakhs ko intezar  tha jis ghadi ka, wo ghadi aaj aayi hai, Aaj fainsla ho kar rehega, sadiyo ke takrav ka, Ki, Anda phele aaya tha ya murgi pehle aayai hai.

Hello everybody, All of you must have heard the famous ghazal "ye daulat bhi le lo, ye shohrat be le lo" by ghazal king Lt. Jagjeet singh. And must be liking the same.  Now the matter of discussion is how we all live with the contest. Especially the female gentry. Though I believe,  emotions don't attack as per gender, and in fact in all human beings both characters (male and female) are always available,  and anyone's personality indicates the character as well.  But in our Indian system, it is a male dominated society, however I know, some of you may not agree to this also.  Further, many of us,  keep remembering of the good past,  and don't  live present at the fullest and result is, go into depression. We should think about the people who don't have anything,  anything to eat, anything to remember etc., etc. I want to dedicate this blog to one of my old friends, to whom I was talking after almost 15 years.  Can...

Hello everybody, After such a long time,  we are able to talk.  Now with out wasting much of your time, just want to share certain data available and then will discuss further. “Brahma’s one day equals to 1,000 cycles of the four yugas (one cycle of four yugas is 4.32 million years). It is called one kalp. There are fourteen Manus in one kalp. For the same length of time there is the night of Brahma. This is called pralaya or kalp pralaya." “Half of Brahma’s life is called parardh. One parardh is finished and the existing kalp is in the beginning of the second parardh (the first day of the 51st year of Brahma). The very first day of Brahma was the day when he himself was created by God Vishnu and it was called the Brahm kalp. The present running kalp is called Varah kalp (or Shvet Varah kalp).”  According to the above information, Brahma’s ag...

Is it so, do we really need these khaps or these leaders???? If the answer is "NO", t hen  Why these things exist at all,  Why we need to follow such customs, Who is taking guarantee that after marriage women are safe, Why our leaders support this system instead of fighting for the benefits of the country,  Why they have chosen to back track,  Why we cannot support the women around us.......................... just because they need votes.  I think, our leaders follow all this because they consider themselves mere representatives of such KHAPS or some cummunities as at the time of elections, these people help them, and not the public at large. If we are not helping them or we are not electing them, then how can we expect anything from them. There are leaders/ educationists/ well qualified  candidates who don't win, as normally, only 55-60% of us vote. And now we are at the losing front and if this is not the right time to wake...

Almost every Saturday, one of you, my well wishers, calls and reminds me to write a blog. It makes me feel good and special. But trust me I  am bad starter and always get late for the occasions, since my school time followed by my CA classes, library and now my office. Thank God, I am able to send my kids to school on time. Now, this blog writing and continuing the same should not become another example (considering this my start of writing books). In my first blog, I was so excited but slowly & gradually many unfinished blogs are there in the drafts. Now, I am afraid like my morning walk & my exercising habit, this blogging is also a matter for another few days. Please, Please save this. Actually, I got so many good comments that my expectations got higher and higher and now not able to complete any of the blogs. So guide me in right direction and keep in touch. I know one thing, I can work good in pressure. So now, you people...

Just completed 9 years in the same group, and realised, how much surprised I used to be when I met such ppl around 10-12 years back. And those are still there. What a beautiful occasion this is, to talk about our dreams, perceptions and the reality. Before that I would really like to thank & congratulate my Boss as it’s not me alone, together we made it possible. Without the comfort, the power, the liberty to take decisions, I am being always offered, it would not have been possible. Are we able to recall the days when we were in class 10 th and planning for the future and why 10 th only, at every milestone there was a change in the vision about life and so in the planning. If I will talk about myself, I think I am able to summarise the facts as below: 1                     Firstly, I wanted to be a teacher, precisely a Math’s Teacher, then 2   ...