Saturday with Sheetal

Is it so, do we really need these khaps or these leaders???? If the answer is "NO", t hen  Why these things exist at all,  Why we need to follow such customs, Who is taking guarantee that after marriage women are safe, Why our leaders support this system instead of fighting for the benefits of the country,  Why they have chosen to back track,  Why we cannot support the women around us.......................... just because they need votes.  I think, our leaders follow all this because they consider themselves mere representatives of such KHAPS or some cummunities as at the time of elections, these people help them, and not the public at large. If we are not helping them or we are not electing them, then how can we expect anything from them. There are leaders/ educationists/ well qualified  candidates who don't win, as normally, only 55-60% of us vote. And now we are at the losing front and if this is not the right time to wake up then I am afraid

Almost every Saturday, one of you, my well wishers, calls and reminds me to write a blog. It makes me feel good and special. But trust me I  am bad starter and always get late for the occasions, since my school time followed by my CA classes, library and now my office. Thank God, I am able to send my kids to school on time. Now, this blog writing and continuing the same should not become another example (considering this my start of writing books). In my first blog, I was so excited but slowly & gradually many unfinished blogs are there in the drafts. Now, I am afraid like my morning walk & my exercising habit, this blogging is also a matter for another few days. Please, Please save this. Actually, I got so many good comments that my expectations got higher and higher and now not able to complete any of the blogs. So guide me in right direction and keep in touch. I know one thing, I can work good in pressure. So now, you people know who to direct me. But this pressure sh

Just completed 9 years in the same group, and realised, how much surprised I used to be when I met such ppl around 10-12 years back. And those are still there. What a beautiful occasion this is, to talk about our dreams, perceptions and the reality. Before that I would really like to thank & congratulate my Boss as it’s not me alone, together we made it possible. Without the comfort, the power, the liberty to take decisions, I am being always offered, it would not have been possible. Are we able to recall the days when we were in class 10 th and planning for the future and why 10 th only, at every milestone there was a change in the vision about life and so in the planning. If I will talk about myself, I think I am able to summarise the facts as below: 1                     Firstly, I wanted to be a teacher, precisely a Math’s Teacher, then 2                     An accounts teacher 3                     A lecturer 4                     But joined CA The

How does it sound if your three year old kido talks like 1              MOM,     Kya main aapki MADAD karu, 2              Mummy,                 I want to go for Skiing 3              Mummy,                 U use ANYWAY DOOR and come to home immediately                 I am missing U 4              Papa,     PL mujhe ek GADGET le do. 5              Mujhe Time machine main daal do, I want to go to office with You. If you are already used to listen all this, it means your kid(s) are watching Doraemon regularly .  Now, as a parent, Do we really need to think about it or is it really a matter of concern. I don’t think so. The kind of attitude, vocabulary and imagination power, they are getting from the particular Character is tremendous, I believe. Moreover, they are able to understand the characters very well; a)       Nobita is a bad student and always gets ZERO, and that is BAD. b)       Gian is a bad singer and always shows his muscle p

Trust me, it's difficult than we can think of. This blog writing cannot be done just like that. Just wanted to share  another thought with you. Since childhood, I used to think, whatever I feel should not happen to me or if, I was afraid from something how that happens to me exactly in line with my fear or thought. Few days back I was just reading something on net about aura and how it works. And there was a reference of a book, The power of subconscious mind beautifully written by Joseph Murphy. A week passed away and finally i got time to buy the book and the book (though as always i read only 3-4 chapters) changed my thought process in a few minutes. I don't understand why I was not able to realize till date, why fears always won, why I did what I never wanted, Some other questions are Why my height is short, Why I studied in that particular school; Why I became a CA Why I got married out of delhi, Why I came back in delhi, Why my son fell down from first f